This post is for Monday 12/6
MEMORY -
I will never forget Pete's request to be cremated and put into an urn in the shape of a book. It represented all that he was while here on earth. Well worded, full of knowledge and always a page away from a good story.
APPLICATION -
Took a trip to my parents house today. While sitting in the living room with Dad, he spoke about wanting to have Christmas at their house, because that's where Pete was. "He's too heavy to lift and bring over to your house" Dad said jokingly with a smile.
REFLECTION -
A year ago, Dad would have never lightly spoken about Pete's urn like he did today. It was not a sign of disrespect, yet a sign of acceptance and healing. Peter wouldn't have wanted us to be sad every time we caught glance of his remains. It's comforting to watch over the physical part of the person that is no longer needed in the spiritual world. Pete is still very much alive continuing to be an open book for our entire family. The urn is simply a reminder of what he once was and what he needs not to be anymore.
I invite you to follow my day to day discoveries as I begin Living Like a Loved One, I lost my Uncle to cancer a year ago in late September. It's been a challenging healing process for the entire family, and I've decided that it doesn't have to be that difficult. During the next year, I will take the most special memories of my Uncle and bring them back to a reality in my day to day life. I hope this brings comfort and enlightenment to all who subscribe.
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